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Frequently Asked Questions


What can I expect at Dearing House? 

Usually when you come to Dearing House, you will have already met either a Law Enforcement Officer (LE) or a Department of Human Services (DHS) caseworker, who have arranged for a forensic interview of your child.  Our interviewers are trained to speak with children regarding concerns of abuse or neglect and are very kind and gentle. These interviews are designed to maximize the information gained, while minimizing contamination of the information and minimizing the trauma that is sometimes associated with the investigative process.
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During your child’s interview, Dearing House staff will meet with you to:
  • Explain details about the services of the Center
  • Give you educational brochures to better understand the abuse
  • Help guide you and your family to the path of healing
  • Always be available to answer questions and concerns
  • Help you set up a medical exam or therapeutic assessment

All interviews are digitally recorded to preserve the integrity of the information gathered during the interview. These recordings are the property of law enforcement. These recordings cannot take the place of testimony in court if that is required.

My child is coming to Dearing House for a forensic interview. What should I tell him or her?

Explain to your child that he or she is going to a place where children can talk to a person who can help with what has happened. Do not tell your child that she is going to the Center to play or to meet a special friend. Be truthful, but be brief. Do not suggest to your child what he or she is to say and do not coach or rehearse your child ahead of time. It is also very important that you not offer any bribes or rewards to your child for telling. Encourage your child to be truthful and honest with the person to whom he or she is going to speak.

Can I watch my child’s interview?
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Parents and caregivers are not allowed in the interview or observation rooms during the interview. A law enforcement agency and/or child welfare cases worker will discuss the interview with you after the interview and answer your questions.
How long does the interview last?
The length of the interview depends on the child and nature of the allegations and can range from ten minutes to two hours. The average length of time an interview takes is 40-60 minutes.
  ​DIRECT SERVICES FOR CRIME VICTIMS – Toll Free Numbers
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline     800–4–A–CHILD (800–422–4453)
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative (revenge/nonconsensual porn)       844–878–2274
Disaster Distress Helpline     800–985–5990
Mothers Against Drunk Driving  877–MADD–HELP (877–623–3435)
National Domestic Violence Hotline  Hotline   800–799–7233
National Elder Fraud Hotline  833–FRAUD–11 (833–372–8311)
National Human Trafficking Hotline  888–373–7888
National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children  888–818–POMC (888–818–7662)
National Runaway Safeline800–RUNAWAY   (800–786–2929)
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Hotline  800–273–8255   Espanol 888–628–9454
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline Hotline 866–331–9474
Pathways to Safety International (domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking)833–SAFE–833 (833–723–3833)
Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN)800–656–HOPE (800–656–4673)
Safe Phone Helpline (sexual assault support for the DoD community)877–995–5247
StrongHearts Native Helpline (domestic violence and dating violence support for Native Americans)844–7NATIVE (844–762–8483)

Helpful Articles

  • About Child Trauma
  • Impact of Domestic Violence on Children 
  • 11 Signs Your Child Needs a Therapist
  • ​What is the Treatment for Child Sexual Abuse?
  • Common Therapy Approaches
  • Finding Courage to Talk About Abuse​
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline  24/7​
  • Parenting Children who have experienced abuse​
  • Coping in Hard Times, Fact Sheet for Parents




Agencies / Organizations

  • Oklahoma Department ​of Human Services
  • ​Smart Start of Central Oklahoma
  • Children's Advocacy Centers of Oklahoma
  • ​Federal Bureau of Investigation
  • ​Prevent Child Abuse America
  • Victim Information and Notification
  • ​Movement For Children
  • ​National Children's Alliance

Report Child Abuse


​State law requires every person who has reason to believe that a child is being abused or neglected, or is in danger of being abused or neglected, MUST report the suspicion of abuse promptly to the Oklahoma Department of Human Services (OKDHS).

The Statewide 24-hour Child Abuse Hotline is 1-800-522-3511. You may also call local law enforcement authorities for any suspicion of abuse perpetrated by someone who does not have responsibility for the child.
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OKDHS policy and state law require strict maintenance of the confidentiality of reports of child abuse. Anonymous reports are also accepted. Dearing House brings together all the professionals and agencies needed to offer services: law enforcement, child protective services, prosecution, mental health, medical, and advocacy.
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Dearing House has been an accredited member of the National Children's Alliance since 2003.  To assure that all children receive consistent, evidence-based interventions that help them heal, the Standards for Accreditation required:
  • Multidisciplinary Team Collaboration
  • Diversity. Equity and Accessibility
  • Forensic Interviews that are legally sound and fact-finding
  • Victim Support and Advocacy
  • Medical Evaluation
  • Trauma-focused Mental Health
  • Case Tracking and Review
  • Child Safety and Protection
  • Organizational capacity and legal oversight


2022 Board of Directors of Dearing House, Inc.
Chairperson:  Tina Fisher, School Administration

Vice-Chair:    Barbara lhrig, Retired Educator
Secretary:    Morgan Cremers Swain, MSW
Treasurer:      Joe Theobald, Murphy Insurance Agency
Members: Spike Henderson,  Cherokee Strip Credit Union
Mindy Meyer, Alliance Health;  Lindsey Wilburn, RN. Special Education
 Darrell Frost, Northern Oklahoma College,
Jennifer Swords,  Osage Casinos; Errin Loughridge, self-employed

 

​Dearing House Advisory Council
The Advisory Council are volunteers with expertise and experience who provide support and guidance
​ to the board and staff to further the mission of Dearing House.

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